Separation and family disputes can be stressful, particularly when decisions need to be made about children, finances, property, or future living arrangements. Our family mediation services help families resolve disputes and reach practical agreements without the need for lengthy court proceedings. At Marcia Mediation, we work with separating couples, parents, grandparents, civil partners, and unmarried couples to help resolve disagreements and move forward constructively. As part of the family mediation process, our mediators remain impartial, helping both parties communicate effectively, explore options, and make informed decisions about the future.
Many people ask, what is family mediation?
Family mediation is a voluntary process that helps families resolve disputes with the support of an independent mediator. Rather than asking a court to make decisions, mediation gives you the opportunity to discuss issues together and reach agreements that work for your family.
A mediator does not take sides or tell you what to do. Their role is to facilitate discussions, identify common ground, and help both parties find practical solutions.
For many families, family law mediation offers a quicker, less stressful, and more cost effective alternative to court proceedings.
The first step is usually a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM). This meeting gives you the opportunity to learn more about mediation, discuss your circumstances, and decide whether mediation is suitable for your situation.
In many family law cases, attending a MIAM is required before making an application to court.
Find out more on our MIAMs page.
If mediation is suitable, sessions will be arranged to discuss the issues that need resolving.
Meetings can take place together, separately, online, or through shuttle mediation where the mediator communicates between both parties. The approach used will depend on your circumstances and what helps both parties communicate most effectively.
Our online family mediation services allow clients to attend sessions from home, making the process more convenient and accessible.
As discussions progress, the mediator will help identify areas of agreement and explore possible solutions.
Where agreements are reached, these can be recorded in mediation documents and reviewed by independent solicitors if required.
How Much Does Family Mediation Cost?
A common question is how much does family mediation cost?
The cost of mediation depends on the complexity of the issues being discussed and the number of sessions required. However, mediation is often significantly more affordable than resolving disputes through court proceedings.
Many families find that mediation helps them reach agreements more quickly, reducing both legal costs and unnecessary delays.
If you would like information about how much family mediation costs UK wide or details about your specific circumstances, please contact our team today.
How to Prepare for Family Mediation
If you are wondering how to prepare for mediation family law matters, it helps to gather any relevant documents, identify the issues you would like to discuss, and consider practical solutions before your first session.
Being prepared can help discussions progress more efficiently and make it easier to reach agreements.
Mediation isn’t free. However it’s significantly cheaper than paying for court fees and legal representation if you take your divorce to court. Mediation also tends to resolve the dispute more quickly. If you are eligible for legal aid the cost to you could be reduced.
If you are receiving benefits or have a low income, you may be eligible for legal aid from the government to cover your mediation sessions in part or in whole. You will be expected to provide evidence to support this. You can start the process to find out if you are eligible here. You can also discuss this with a mediator before beginning your sessions.
What Does Family Mediation Involve?
A common question is what does family mediation involve?
Family mediation can help families resolve issues relating to children, finances, separation, civil partnerships, unmarried couples, and wider family relationships.
Our family mediation services focus on helping families reach practical agreements and move forward with greater certainty.
One of the most common reasons people seek family mediation is to discuss arrangements for their children.
Mediation helps parents agree arrangements for where children live, time spent with each parent, holidays, schooling, and communication. The focus is always on the children’s best interests and creating arrangements that work for the whole family.
For more information, visit our Child Arrangements Mediation page.
Financial Matters
Financial issues often form an important part of the mediation process.
Our mediators can help separating couples discuss property, savings, pensions, debts, and ongoing financial commitments in a constructive and organised way. By working together through mediation, couples can often reach agreements more quickly and with less conflict.
For more detailed support, visit our Financial Mediation page.
Grandparents and Wider Family Members
Family disputes can affect more than just parents and children.
In some situations, grandparents and other family members play an important role in a child’s life. Mediation can provide an opportunity for those relationships and concerns to be considered as part of wider family discussions.
Learn more on our Grandparents Rights Mediation page.
Some of the key benefits of family law mediation include:
For many families, mediation provides a practical alternative to court proceedings.
Our online family mediation services allow clients to access mediation from anywhere in England and Wales.
Remote sessions follow the same process as face to face mediation while offering greater flexibility for busy families and those living in different locations.
If you are searching for family mediation near me or family mediation services near me, online mediation provides a convenient way to access professional support wherever you are based.
Learn more about our Online Mediation Services.
Why Choose Marcia Mediation Services
At Marcia Mediation, we help families reach practical agreements through a professional, supportive, and impartial mediation process.
Our team has extensive experience helping families resolve disputes involving children, finances, separation, civil partnerships, and wider family relationships. Several members of our mediation team are former solicitors, giving them a strong understanding of the legal and financial issues that often arise during separation and family disputes.
Whether you need support with child arrangements, financial matters, or family disputes, our family mediation services are focused on helping families move forward with confidence.
First of all, both parties decide if they want to attend. If both have already decided that family mediation is the best option, they contact their chosen mediator to find out more about the process and make an initial appointment.
In cases where only one party has researched mediation upfront, it can be possible to hold a Mediation Information Assessment Meeting or MIAM with that party alone, which can be done over the phone if necessary.
The mediator will discuss the family mediation process in detail and can then contact the other party to find out if they want to try mediation too. Even if they do not, the mediator can still help by providing the required paperwork for the originating party to make an application to the court.
In any case, you cannot legally make a court application until you have attended a MIAM in person or by phone, and an accredited mediator will always assess your case honestly in order to decide whether, in their opinion, mediation is a suitable way to proceed.
Mediation puts at your disposal an individual who has your best interests at heart, aiming for a fast, low-cost and low-stress resolution to your case through mutual agreement and with all parties retaining as much dignity as possible along the way.
The alternative – allowing solicitors to take a combative approach to negotiations that can end with a judge imposing life-changing decisions on you and your children – is in most cases clearly not preferable.
By negotiating through mediation, you can work together, even in relationships that have completely broken down, to make more positive future arrangements.
At any time if either party is unhappy with the progress made via mediation, they can choose to leave the process and go via the courts instead.
However, it’s worth remembering that the opposite is not also true – once a judgment is imposed upon you by a court, it is legally binding and you cannot then choose to go to mediation to find a more acceptable alternative.
Because of this, it is almost always better to go to mediation first and attempt an amicable resolution, while keeping the courts as a last resort if negotiations break down or you encounter an impasse that even an experienced accredited family mediator cannot resolve.
You’ll need to get your divorce finalised by a judge, so it’s not possible to complete divorce proceedings without involving the divorce court; however, the mediation process can significantly reduce the amount of time spent in court and remove the acrimonious negotiations and solicitors’ fees.
Mediation takes place at a mutually agreeable time and date, with all involved parties working together to achieve the best possible outcome, under the guidance of an accredited experienced family mediator.
Your mediator can include the views of your children or extended family who act as caregivers, such as grandparents, and again this takes place in friendly and comfortable surroundings, rather than requiring them to attend court.
At the end of the process you will receive documents that you can present to a judge who can then finalise your divorce – in some cases this can be done without you attending a court hearing in person, so while the divorce courts must give you that final rubber stamp, you might never need to attend court in person in order to get it.
Divorces and dissolutions of civil partnerships are finalised by a judge, but you can avoid time spent in court by negotiating the terms of your separation through a mediator and then taking your Memorandum of Understanding into the court for the final approval.
You are legally required to consider mediation by attending an initial MIAM or Mediation Information Assessment Meeting, and this should help you to understand more about how a mediator can reduce the amount of time you need to spend in court or negotiating through solicitors.
In as little as three mediation sessions in amicable separations, your mediator can help both parties to agree on terms that are then written down as a Memorandum of Understanding. This is presented to a judge who can approve the final separation based on those terms.
So while you cannot avoid court completely when divorcing or dissolving a civil partnership, mediation can massively cut down the amount of time you have to spend in front of the judge, and the final approval can sometimes be granted without you attending in person.
Even if you would like to process your divorce through court, you are legally required to attend a MIAM, which is an initial mediation session. This is to find out if your divorce can be resolved through mediation which is more cost and time effective for all parties.
Mediation is not compulsory in your divorce, however the court will require both of you to attend a MIAM before entering into court proceedings.
A pioneer for mediation since commencing legal practice as a family solicitor some seventeen years ago, Marcia has worked exclusively as an independent mediator since 2004, focussing initially on family mediation, and latterly on work place mediation.
Marcia’s accreditations include Family Mediation and she is a qualified child consultant practitioner. Her associations include the Professional Mediators Association and Resolution.
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