DIVORCE and MEDIATION

 

MARCIA MEDIATION IN FAMILY SETS OUT 10 things to AVOID when going through Divorce.

  1. HIT LIST NUMBER ONE; DO NOT REFUSE MEDIATION

 

 

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MEDIATION WORKS . It is Precious. POSITIVE. Productive. NOT PRICEY. 90% of cases are agreed by mediation. Why would you not use it?

 

 

 

2. HIT LIST NUMBER 2: FORGETTING TO PUT THE KIDS FIRST (and Teddy bear)

 

 

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Children can  become sad and depressed when you split up. With planning, this can be avoided.

 

3.HIT LIST NUMBER THREE; You actually want to DEFEND the Divorce

 

 

 

 

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Don’t even think about it. It is time to move forward, not backwards.

 

4.HIT LIST Number 4; stop speaking to your ex.

 

 

 

 

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This will only upset your kids and cost a lot of money in communicating through solicitors. You need to talk.

 

 

5. Hit list number FIVE ; BLAME YOUR SPOUSE FOR EVERYTHING

 

 

 

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Chances are you are both equally responsible. It is what it is.

6. Hit List NUMBER 6; ASSUME YOU WILL WIN AT COURT

 

 

 

 

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You have no idea what the judge is thinking. There is a SUBJECTIVE element.

 

 

 

7. Hit List number 7; Get more in debt.

 

 

 

 

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Divorce is expensive. Now is not the time to spend.

 

 

 

8. Hit list Number 8; Don’t refuse Therapy- No. No. No.

 

 

 

 

 

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Change is not easy. It is possible. Therapy can show you a bright light at what might seem a very long tunnel. Seek it out!

 

 

 

 

9. HIT LIST NUMBER NINE;  DON’T FORGET TO CHANGE YOUR WILL

 

 

 

 

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Unless you want all your money to go to your ex!

 

 

 

 

10. HIT LIST NUMBER 10; Don’t sell your ex’s STUFF! (including the dog)

 

 

 

 

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You will end up back in court. And that is not where you need to be.

 

Family Mediation is a positive process that allows you to accept where you are now, and facilitates new beginnings; for the benefit of your children; for the benefit of each of you.

 

For further guidance please speak to Marcia Lister. 07791560161.

 

 

 

 

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